Big Brother and Big Sister

May 17-dreary, last day of auditions at the high school

My dear sweet children were finally told last night that mama's pregnant and going to have a baby. Boy child was over the moon, really grasping what it means that we're going to have a baby brother or sister. He's thrilled, elated, and overall super stoked. Girl child doesn't really understand but she's super excited to help pick out names, like Helepsipa, Limma, and Beana (for boys).

I never realized how much I would enjoy sharing it with them, although I should have. These two kidlets are so important to me and I spend so much time with them, I should have known that their expressions and joy about the baby would make it even more enjoyable for me. When I was pregnant with #2, #1 wasn't old enough to truly understand...he was all of 2.5 when he became a big brother. We were doing good not to have him smoosh her head and hit her with blocks. This time around, both of them will be old enough to feel the baby move, be there right after the baby is born, get excited about names, outfits, etc. And yes, old enough to fetch me a diaper so I don't have to go searching during a blow out ;)

It really feels more like "we" are having a baby...as a family. I may be the one to carry it, but it will be their sibling, too. The added layer of complexity and interconnectedness, bringing forth another child, but also adding to the kid ranks, was an unexpected blossom of awesomeness.

Brigid's sentiments: Allow yourself to enjoy. Embrace the smiles and laughter of your children, know that you'll have to help them when they're upset about the new baby, but also know that their lives will be richer for the experience and the addition.